Engage before closing. On dating apps or cold approaches, avoid jumping straight to asking for a date. Start interesting conversations: ask questions, joke, flirt. Get her emotionally invested so she's more likely to agree and show up.
Why this step matters:
-Creates emotional buy-in for higher meet-up rates
-Reduces need for heavy in-person game
15-30 minutes
Tinder or dating app, Phone for texting, Humor and questions
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Definition of Done
•She asks you questions back
•Conversation flows with flirting
Common Mistakes to Avoid
❌ Asking for date immediately
→Flirt and build rapport first
❌ Boring small talk
→Use jokes and personalize
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